Mother's Day holds a special place in our hearts; this year, it’s particularly meaningful for me. I'm thrilled to share the journey of co-writing a tribute song for my mom, a project that’s been both healing and memorable.
In 2019, Richard Casper invited me to a songwriting retreat as part of his non-profit programming, CreatiVets. At the time, I was dual-hatting, serving as his social-media volunteer. But, I was fortunate enough to participate in a songwriting session with top songwriters as a result of that trip, and as a result of that song, my life changed - for the better.
A Journey of Catharsis and Tribute
The process of writing this song was incredibly cathartic. Losing my mom was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through. Pouring my emotions into music helped me navigate the grief. Songwriting allowed me to express my feelings in a way that felt both therapeutic and meaningful. Creating something beautiful from such deep pain has been a transformative experience.
“I Love You the Mostest” Lyrics
Auburn Elementary, back in 1993
Pulled up in a Dodge caravan
Still holding tight to Mama’s hand
First day of first grade
She could see scared on my face
Trying to act tough, yeah I even prayed
Jesus couldn’t save the day
But Mama had a way with words
And these are the words I heard
Come here, give me some loving
This ain’t nothing
I’ll be waiting on the other side
I’m proud of you, baby
I miss you like crazy
Everything’s gonna be alright
Just hold on tight; never let go
I hope that you know
I love you the mostest
A few years into college
That’s when I got the calling
To wear the cloth of the nation
So I was headed off to basic
Nothing could prepare me for anything that I was gonna see
Mama didn’t want me to leave, but she still believed in me
Mama had a way with words
And these are the words I heard
Come here, give me some loving
This ain’t nothing
I’ll be waiting on the other side
I’m proud of you, baby
I miss you like crazy
Everything’s gonna be alright
Just hold on tight; never let go
I hope that you know it
Yeah, I love you the mostest
Yeah, I love you the mostest
Since 2011
She’s been dancing up in heaven
She’s probably smiling from ear to ear
Having herself a nice cold beer
When I bust through the pearly gates
You know exactly what she’ll say
Come here, give me some loving
Ain’t this something
Been waiting on the other side
I’m proud of you, baby
I’ve missed you like crazy
Everything’s gonna be alright
You’ve held on tight; you never let go
I know that you love me
Yeah, I love you the mostest
Yeah, I love you the mostest
Gratitude and Collaboration
I am immensely grateful to everyone who played a role in bringing this song to life. Richard Casper and CreatiVets, first and foremost -- their mission to bring healing to veterans brought healing to this veteran. The support has been instrumental in helping my mom's memory live on through this music.
CreatiVets is the nonprofit organization that made this possible. CreatiVets works tirelessly to help veterans like myself cope with service-related trauma through the creative arts. I was told my mom had cancer about 2 weeks before I was leaving for basic and, though not service-related from a line of duty perspective, laying in a bunk several states away, processing the fact that my mom was actively dying was trauma enough for this song to serve as a vehicle to help me find a bit of light. Collaborating with talented individuals who understood my vision was crucial. Anthony and Brent are magical humans full of talent from head to toe. From the first chord to the final recording, each person involved brought their unique touch to the project, making it a true labor of love. Their dedication and passion shine through in every note and lyric.
The Importance of Mental Health Awareness
Releasing this song in May is especially significant as it aligns with Mental Health Awareness Month. My mom lived during a time when great shame was associated with navigating the challenges of mental and emotional health. As we release this song, I also want to highlight an important issue that affects many veterans. Statistics show that veteran suicide, anxiety, and depression are alarmingly high. The trend is being reversed by initiatives like those by CreatiVets are crucial in providing veterans with the support they need to heal and thrive. Music and other creative outlets offer a powerful way to process emotions and connect with others who share similar experiences.
Join Me in This Tribute
I invite you to listen to the song and join me in this tribute to my mom. Through this music, we can all keep her memory alive and honor the love and strength she gave us. Stay tuned for exciting news from Jordan Roberts, the talented country artist who cut the song and brought our vision to life with his incredible voice and artistry.
Listen to the Song
Thank you for being part of this journey with me. Your support means the world, and together, we can make a difference in the lives of many.
Listening to the song is not just about appreciating the music; it’s about connecting with a story of love, loss, and healing. I hope it resonates with you and offers comfort, whether remembering a loved one or supporting a veteran in your life.
CREDITS
Performed by: Jordan Roberts
Record Producer: Joel McKenney
Songwriters: Brent Rupard, Anthony Olympia, Daniel Collins
Special Thanks: CreatiVets, The ASCAP, and Jake Peavy Foundations
Frequently Asked Questions
What inspired you to write this tribute song?
The song was inspired by my mom's memory and her profound impact on my life. It was a way to honor her and cope with the grief of her passing.
How did CreatiVets help in the songwriting process?
CreatiVets provided the platform and support needed to create this song. They connected me with talented individuals and offered the resources to bring my vision to life.
Why is mental health awareness for veterans so important?
Many veterans struggle with issues like PTSD, anxiety, and depression. Raising awareness and providing support can significantly improve their quality of life and prevent tragic outcomes like suicide.
How can I support CreatiVets?
You can support CreatiVets by donating to their cause, attending events, or spreading awareness about their work. Every bit of support helps them continue their mission.
Additional Resources
- CreatiVets Website - https://creativets.org
- Mental Health Resources for Veterans - https://www.va.gov/health-care/health-needs-conditions/mental-health/
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